10/1/19
Dear Friends and Family,
I felt that this post belonged in “The Anchor” category instead of “Adventures in Amsterdam” since it is breast cancer related, don’t get me wrong having breast cancer WAS and STILL IS an “adventure”. Cancer is not an “adventure” that anyone wants to go on or be a part of. Cancer does not discriminate and affects not only the person that is diagnosed with cancer, but caregivers also. Cancer is an AWFUL DISEASE and so many die from this horrible disease, the young and old, and there is STILL NO CURE!
I started reflecting on Breast Cancer Awareness Month this morning at 3:00 A.M. when I woke up and thought to myself I definitely must write today as my thoughts flooded my mind. As I have said before, writing is my therapy.
I eventually fell back to sleep and ran a few errands this morning and packed for my trip to Texas. The reason I am going to Texas is for my six month check-up with my oncologist and radiation oncologist. My 2nd Cancerversary is coming up on November 20th. I have been a nervous wreck lately. Statistically, cancer is more likely to return within the first two years. I try to think more positively, but I always act a little “differently” around my check-up times, just ask my husband – ha, ha. I am going to my appointments now because my last six month appointments were in April.
I am reminded of cancer daily. Every morning when I wake up, the first steps I take in the morning are painful. My body feels “old”. Side effects of the medication I take are painful joints and muscles. Also, my hot flashes have been bothersome. Hot flashes are another side effect of my medication. The scars that I have from surgery are a daily reminder of what my body has been through. I could go on and on, but I will stop there… I am one of the lucky ones to have survived cancer as I sit here and think of those that have LOST THEIR LIVES TO CANCER.
What I want YOU to take-away from this post is to make sure you receive your yearly mammogram along with receiving other preventative tests for different types of cancers.
Anchored in HOPE,
JW
Anchored in HOPE 
We appreciate your honesty and the real, rawness of what cancer can do. From the outside, you look so healthy and beautiful, and your positive attitude is nothing short of amazing. It just goes to show you that one never knows what someone else is going through. We all need to remember that. We are so grateful that you are still here!!! Enjoy your trip to Texas and visiting your family. That will definitely be a gigantic boost to your well being. We will say a prayer that all goes well with your appointment. We love you!
Aunt Diana and Uncle Jim
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Thank you Aunt Diana and Uncle Jim! Yes, that post was definitely written from the heart! I remember when I had cancer, people would say, “You don’t look sick.” All I could do was just continue on and go through the motions. I could not agree with you more, everyone has their own struggles… Yes, I am looking forward to seeing family and friends. Thank you for the prayers. Love you!
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Your words speak for many who find it hard to be so candid about their cancer. My prayers are always with you that you remain cancer-free.
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Thank you for your prayers, Marsha! It gives me an outlet and lets others know that they are not alone!
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Jen,
I understand and I totally relate. I have my 6 month check up in November. You will be perfectly fine and on to enjoying more adventures. I know you’re coming to Houston and I wish I was going to be there to catch up. I’m up at my mom’s helping out now and won’t be home for another 2 weeks. Cheers to you and to a GREAT visit in Houston. nancy
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Thanks, Nancy! It is stressful as you know, but trying not to worry about it too much. I am disappointed that I won’t get to see you in Houston. I hope to see you when I have my next check-up. All will be good for both of us! 💗⚓️💗
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Aww Jen, you are amazing and an example for us all. Love you and your family! I hope I get to see you when you come to Texas. Keep you in my thoughts and prayers always.
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Thank you, Tammy! You are too kind! I should see you at Bunco… 😀
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